Well, I know that I said that I would commit to posting, however, everytime I sit down to write I cannot think of anything which warrants a new post. And although some use their blogs to voice their opinions/findings/rants, I don’t feel that this is the purpose of this site. Which is well enough, and I may in the future however for now, we will stick primarily updates on the Ewert family.
So what’s new? My mom left on Wednesday, although it feels like a month ago. This past week has flown by, probably because I was back to work 5 days a week. So Ben, Jakob, Soren and I have the house to ourselves again, which is a welcomed change. No offense. We loved having everyone come and visit and welcome anyone who is willing to make the trek out here, however there is something to be said for getting your ducks back in a row. We spent the morning cleaning, doing laundry and catching up on some much needed sleep. In the afternoon, we went to visit Great Grandma Marion, whom we haven’t seen since Christmas. It is nice having her back in Three hills. Then Grammy came over for tea as Grandpy is at Missions Fest in Regina.
Jakob’s new phrase is okey dokey, most of the time he just gets the okey out but it sure is cute regardless. He has entered into a really whiny stage. I am unsure as to whether this is because we are back to the 5 day work week so our time is limited, or if it is because he senses change coming, or if it is simply because he is one and half and testing his boundaries and wants to see how far collapsing on the floor like a rag doll will get him. I can’t imagine it is an easy life – knowing what you want but being unable to communicate it. So all he says is “up!” and then tries to point to whatever it is that he wants.
Beginning in February Ben will be working full time at the Arts Academy. He is very excited about this and has enjoyed his job there thus far. So what does he do? Well that is a good question. Unfortunately, at times it is not as Artistically enabling as one might think but I am sure he will be able to flourish in this way eventually. Right now his time is filled with a lot of grant applications, newspaper publications, general PR for the upcoming Spring Musical, Valentines Dessert fundraiser and keeping track of the daily administrivia.
As for me, I am already looking forward to maternity leave which I will be making the most of come April. I am not due until June however, because I have not been at Servus a year, I do not get a job protected leave with benefits. The implications of this are that with no job to return to, employment after child #2 may come sooner albeit probably later than my year off. So why not take the time to spend with Jakob. Besides, there are aspects of my job which are not worth the stress, and sometimes, I am just tired. Other than that, nothing to report, which is the way that I like it. The parasite seems to be doing well.
So glad to hear that Ben has a full-time position with the Arts Academy! Wonderful! No doubt you are looking forward to your maternity leave and spending more time with that precious little Jakob! I can just hear him say that “okey dokey” as I think he must have learned that from his grammy Ewert! Ha! Love to all!
By: Gwendolyn on January 26, 2009
at 5:38 am
Oh yes…I am glad to know that Ben is there now full time. And boy….you must be tired all preggos and then having a little one too. Yep, kids know when change is coming for sure! Keep well all of you and enjoy a bit of ‘normalcy’ while you still can. Love and kisses!
By: Trish on January 26, 2009
at 5:49 am
Hey Krista!
I saw your blog on Lolas when I was clicking on her links.I love your family picture-who took it?
Anyway, from experience of having 3 kids go thru the 18 month “seperation/assert myself/independent yet dont go out of my sight or I will cry stage” ….It will pass eventually(Marcus started at 17 months and he has his moments now but its setted a bit for now) but its very common and somewhat predictable…..for some it esculates at two (thus the terrible twos) But I found it went away (Two was cute- althought the fits were there!)Then at 3 and a half to 4 was always hard in a more prominant way.Each stage has its moments .They are just getting their personality-its just our job to direct a bit and protect.Its nice to know every one goes thru it.For example -Most moms that have a kid Juliannas age are finding a general attitude of sauciness (like a teenager)-which is totally her at times.Its nice to know they are pretty standard normal phases at every stage and it all depends on how you choose to deal with them but regardless its wearing for all moms .The best thing I found was to talk to fellow mothers who are going thru the same stages for advice ,support ect.It makes me have more sympathy ,patience,and stamina because I have an endless support of non judjemental wisdom and support in the daily seemingly small aspects of my life.
Good luck and enjoy!
CE
By: CE on January 26, 2009
at 5:17 pm